If you send a woman an online message through a dating site and she does not respond, please move on. She’s not interested. Sending message after message trying to get her to respond only makes you look like the desperate stalker type.
Case in point:
Message #1: Hay tHr. Yur beutiful. I want to gt to no you.
Message #2: I thnk we wood be a perfect match. rite me bake.
Message #3: Pleez rite me back. I rely like you.
Message #4: Why don’t you rite me back?
Message #4: Why?
See where I’m going with this? These were the messages I got from some guy who I was definitely not interested in. The first three messages came back to back in under 2 minutes. Yes, I could have responded, but as a single woman with a child to protect, I felt just a little creeped out and didn’t want to encourage any interaction here. Particularly after viewing the guy’s photos. He just looked creepy.
But then, when I failed to respond and got messages #4 and 5 over the next two days, it only confirmed the fact that it was better not to respond.
If I could give this guy 2 pointers, it would be these:
#1 – Don’t beg. If a woman doesn’t respond, move on.
#2 – Please learn to spell. Or at the very least, use spell check.
The multiple messages come across as a little bit crazy. Don’t do it. One message is all you need. I don’t care how pretty you think she is. If she doesn’t respond, let it go.